This is my personal thought. Those who are easily offended to words considered illicit in his/her own standards are advised to continue reading; this may be a mind opener.
Aren’t those not part of our body? What difference does it make to say: “I’ve got big breasts” from saying, “I’ve got big eyes”?
If you enter into a Filipino chatroom, words such as those posted above are changed into * asterisk sign. Even in some international chat centers, such words are expurgated and changed into asterisks.
Now, could a husband and a wife expressing how they care for each other through engaging into the world of “sexual intercourse/sex/love” be considered indulging into pornography? Could a doctor physically examining his patient and audaciously stated that his patient’s penis part has something inside be considered a lascivious act?
I bet, not.
I heard once from a sexual and sexuality professor from UP Diliman during a conference said to a presenter who changed some letters into asterisks in his power point presentation, and did not bother to read the words under the “bastos column” when he read it to the audience: “Mr presenter, could you read those words you have bypassed? I want to hear it clearly and correctly.”
The presenter was stunned to hear such harsh words from an audience, so he said, “I am sorry ma’am but those words are somewhat illicit,” to which the professor said: “Why do you say they are illicit? They are parts of the body, arent they?”
The presenter turned red but calmly said: “Ma’am, from the newspapers and tv, they do not say it. They use asterisks.”
The professor said: “Only when a word is used in pornographic content will it be considered explicit! In homes, parents use flowers and bees, hotdogs and seeds in educating their children which is wrong! So, when a child grows up, and saw a bee on a flower, the child is confused! To say those words are explicit is totally wrong!”
I contemplated from that simple talk and concluded that the professor was right – that words only become explicit when used in pornography.
So to you people who judge other people who use “the bastos words” should think another time before concluding they are bastos or manyak!
Bless you all!